31 July 2012

Friends, how can I define it?


In the beginning, they are just simple strangers to us. Sometimes, people that you talk for the first time and seems that you know each other for years. Others, the first time you talk with them; it’s just a “hello! How are you?”… At first, we try to know each other, basic things like age, address, school history. Then, we try to see if we have something in common. At first side, it’s so good to have a friend that you share the same things, but that doesn’t mean that you will be best friend forever. Sometimes, the differences are the one who make the friendship get stronger.
They make us laugh, but they act like our parents too, they say that this is right, this is wrong; I think you should to this, I shouldn’t to that. Even when the truth hurts, they will say it to us. I know that sometimes it’s hard to say the truth, sometimes I got that issue, but I understand when they don’t, it’s like they are trying to protect their little kids.
There are many types of friendship. Sometimes, we don’t talk every day, but when we talk, it’s like we live together or something, it’s a feeling that doesn’t die. Others, you can talk every day, it seems too that you live together and when you don’t talk with that person, it’s like something is missing (can you get it what I am trying to say?)
Friendship, it’s kind of like marriage. We will be together, sharing good and bad moments, being faithful to each other, considering them as brothers/sisters from another mother. It is someone too, who I can express my feeling without fear judgments. Life would be black and white without friends, I am glad that I have friends, special friends =).

Secret keys: mutual affection, sympathy, empathy, honesty, compassion, reciprocity, trust







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